The AIRLINE CAPTAIN


He  writes:
My lead flight attendant came to me and said,
"We  have an  H.R.  on this flight." (H.R.  stands for  human remains.)
"Are they military?"  I asked.  


'Yes', she said.  


'Is there an escort?' I  asked.
'Yes, I  already assigned him a seat'.  


'Would  you please  tell him to come to the
flight deck.  You can board him early," I said..  



A short while later, a  young army sergeant entered the  flight deck.  He was the
image of the  perfectly dressed soldier.
He  introduced himself and  I asked him about his soldier.   


The escorts of these fallen soldiers talk about them as if they are still alive and
still with us.  


'My soldier is on his way back to Virginia ,'  he said.  


He proceeded to answer my questions, but
offered no words.  


I asked him if there was anything I could do for him and he said no.
I told him that he had the toughest job in the
military and that I appreciated the work that
he does for the families of our fallen soldiers.     


The first officer and I got up  out of our seats to shake his hand.  He left the flight  
deck to find his seat.
We completed our preflight checks, pushed back and performed an uneventful
departure.
About 30 minutes into our flight I received a call from the lead flight attendant in
the cabin.  


'I just found out  the family of the soldier we are carrying, is on board', she said.  
She then proceeded to tell me that the  father, mother,
wife and 2-year old  daughter were  
escorting their son, husband, and father home.     


 The family was upset  because they were  unable to see the container that the
soldier was in  before we left.
We  were on our way to a major hub at which the family  was going to wait four
hours for the connecting flight home to Virginia .  


The father of the soldier told the flight attendant that  knowing his son was below
him in the cargo compartment and being unable to see him was  too much for him
and the family to bear.
He had  asked the flight  attendant if there was anything that could  be done to
allow them to see him upon our arrival.
The family wanted to be outside by the cargo door  to watch the  soldier  being
taken off  the airplane..
I could hear the desperation  in the  flight attendants voice when she  asked me if
there was anything I  could  do..
'I'm on  it', I said. I told her that I  would get back  to her.  Airborne communication  
with my company normally occurs in the  form  of  e-mail like messages.  
     
I decided  to  bypass this system and contact my  flight dispatcher directly on a
secondary  radio.
There  is a radio operator in the operations control center who  connects you to
the telephone of the  dispatcher.  


I was  in direct contact with the  dispatcher..     
I explained the situation I had on board with  the family  and what it was the family
 wanted.  


He said he understood and that he would get back to me.  


Two hours went by and I had not heard from the dispatcher.   


We were going to get busy soon and I needed to know what to tell the  family.  


I sent a text  message asking for  an update. I saved the return  message from the
dispatcher and the following is  the  text:  


'Captain,  sorry it has taken so long to get back to  you.  


There  is policy on  this now and I had to check on a few things.  


Upon your arrival a dedicated escort team will meet the aircraft.  


The team will escort the family to the ramp and plane side.
A van will be used to load the remains with a  
secondary van for the family.  The family will be taken to their departure area and
escorted into the terminal where the remains can  be seen on the ramp.
It is a private area for the family only.  


When the  connecting aircraft arrives, the family will be escorted onto the ramp
and plane side to watch the remains being loaded for the final leg home.   


Captain,  most of us here in flight control  are  
veterans.    Please pass our condolences on to the family.  


Thanks.'  


I sent a message back telling flight control thanks for a good job.  I printed out the
message and gave  it to the lead flight attendant to pass on to the father.
The lead flight attendant was very thankful and told me, 'You  have no idea how
much this will  mean to them.'  


Things  started getting busy for the descent, approach and landing.  After landing,
we cleared the runway and taxied to the ramp  area.  


The ramp is huge with 15 gates on either side of the alleyway.   


It is always a busy area with aircraft maneuvering every which way to enter and
exit.  


When we entered the ramp and checked in with the ramp controller,  we were
told that  all  traffic was being held for us.  


'There is a team in  place to meet the aircraft', we were told.   It looked like it was
all coming together, then I  realized that once we  turned the  seat belt sign off,  
everyone would stand up at  once and  delay the family from  getting off the
airplane.     
As we approached our gate, I  asked the  copilot to tell the ramp controller we
were going to stop  short of  the gate to make an announcement to the  
passengers.  He did that and  the ramp controller said, 'Take your time.'  


I  stopped  the aircraft and set the parking brake.
I pushed the  public address  button and said,  'Ladies and gentleman, this  is  
your Captain speaking I  have  stopped short of our gate to make a  special
announcement.
We have a passenger  on board who deserves our honor and respect.
His Name is  Private XXXXXX,  a soldier who recently lost his life.  
Private XXXXXX is  under your feet in the cargo hold.  Escorting him today  is
Army Sergeant  XXXXXXX.  Also, on board are his father, mother, wife, and
daughter.
Your entire flight crew is asking for all passengers to remain in their seats to  
allow the  family to exit the aircraft first. Thank you.'  


We  continued the turn to the gate, came to a Stop and started our  shutdown
procedures.  


A couple of  minutes later I opened the cockpit door.  I  found the two forward
flight attendants crying, something you just do not see.  


I  was told  that  after we came to a stop, every passenger on the aircraft  stayed
in their seats, waiting for the family to exit  the  aircraft.  


When the  family got up and gathered their things, a passenger slowly started to
clap his  hands.  Moments later more passengers joined in and soon  the  entire
aircraft was clapping.  


Words  of 'God  Bless You', I'm sorry, thank  you, be proud, and other kind  words
were uttered to the family as they made their  way  down the aisle and out of the
airplane.   


They  were escorted down to the ramp to finally be with  their loved one.  


Many of the passengers disembarking thanked me for the announcement I had
made.  


They were just words,  I told them,  I could say  
them over and over again,  but nothing I say will  bring back that brave soldier.  


I respectfully ask that all of you reflect on this event  and the  sacrifices that
millions of  our men and women have made to ensure  our freedom and safety in
these United    States of AMERICA .  


Foot note:  


As a Viet  Nam Veteran I can only think of all the  
veterans  including the ones that  ro de  below the deck on their way home and
how they were  treated.  
 
When I read things like this I am proud that our country has not turned  their
backs on our soldiers  returning from the various war zones today and give  them
the respect they so deserve.
I know every one who has served their country who reads this will have tears in
their eyes, including me.
Prayer chain for our Military... Don't break  it!  


Please send this on after a short  prayer for our service men and  women.  


Don't break  it!  


They die for me and mine and you and yours and deserve our honor  and  
respect.  


Prayer:   
'Lord, hold our troops in your loving hands.  Protect them as they protect us.
Bless them and their families for the selfless acts they perform  for us in our time
of need. Amen.'   


Prayer Request: When you  receive this, please stop for a moment and say a  
prayer for our troops around the  world.  


There is nothing  attached.  


Just send this to people in  your address book.  
Do not let it stop  with you.  


Of all the gifts you could give a Marine, Soldier, Sailor, Airman, & others deployed
in harm's way, prayer is the very best  one.
GOD BLESS YOU!!!